The Paradox of Time

Time is a very curious thing.  Few of us truly understand it. Let me give you an example. If you were driving your car, at the speed of light, and you turned on your headlights, would anything happen?

That question relates to Einstein's Theory of Relativity. If you do not know the answer, do not worry. None of us do! Even modern day physicists do not truly understand the Theory of Relativity.

But, I am not looking to talk about some heady physics topic. It is simply too difficult. My point was only to illustrate the illusive nature of time.

Instead of Einstein, let me mention another scientist. A scientist whose work is much more accessible. The scientist's name is Philip Zimbardo. And, he is a professor of psychology at Stanford.

About a decade ago, Zimbardo wrote a book titled The Time Paradox.  And, I found the book to be quite interesting. In Zimbardo's words, time is a paradox because it is, "Something that influences every decision you make (yet) you are totally unaware of."

That quote can be rather intimidating, but let me give you an example. I have heard quite a number of people propose the following thought experiment with regards to career selection. They say, "What would you do if today were the last day of your life? Do that!"

The question is completely ridiculous. So much so that any person giving such advice is immediately discredited, in my mind. That question is about hedonism, not planning.

Let me summarize Zimbardo's recommendation. The most important thing is, when you think about the past, you want to focus on the positive not the negative.

Next most important (meaning, the thing which deserves second priority) is to look to the future. And, third, in the present, it is wise to be hedonic, rather than fatalistic.

Hedonism does have its place. But, it is definitely not the most important thing.